You only get one shot.
Posted by Ethan on Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008
Yes the coverage stunk for the 2008 Olympics. I was expecting so much more. After watching every heat of every race at the Olympic Trials, I was horribly let down by the NBC coverage for the Olympics. It looked so promising when we found out every single detail of Michael Phelps’ life. I assumed that we would be getting the same coverage for Track & Field. Oh, how could I be so naive.
But still, I don’t know how ‘normal’ people do it. How do they expect you to go from experiencing something as amazing and emotional as the OLYMPICS to simply experiencing a normal day to day life? Lucky for me, I lead anything but a normal existence. On some level, I experience the Olympics every year. The current crop of seniors will always help me satisfy my “Olympic” fix. They’re people who are in their final season of a four year cumulation - its now or never. Seniors are guaranteed to realize that college is finite. The end (and the subsequent real world) is upon them. This phase of their athletic career coming to a close and they will do anything and everything to make this year the best one ever.

But they need help. They can’t do it alone. They need teammates to help them accomplish all their goals, both personal and team. It’s amazing how so little of our individual sport is actually individual. Historically, those XC and Track & Field programs that have boasted the best team performances have been those whose underclassmen have realized the finality of each season well before their senior year.
You may be a freshmen and have 12 seasons of competing in front of you, but this is the ONLY shot for the 2008-2009 teams. Next year will be your only sophomore year and so on. Right about now, many freshmen and sophomores are looking at me cross-eyed. Somehow their denial is so strong they have managed to convince themselves that college will last forever. They have no sense of an end or urgency to make it something special. Coaches and seniors can talk about all this until they’re blue in the face, but the fact of the matter is, some people will never realize the impermanent nature of their college years until it hits them in the face like a 2×4. And that is why there are some programs that continue to succeed while others struggle. Developing a tradition where freshmen and sophomores are invested in the ‘current’ success of the team (and their personal success) is a difficult undertaking.

Ultimately, I see developing the team focus as simply building good teammates. A little bit of empathy goes a long way. It is rare that I’ll be able to get a freshmen realizing “that they only get one chance at their freshmen year…make it count.” However, you can accomplish the same outcome by having them ‘do it for the seniors.’ They may not yet see how their apathy is negatively affecting their performance because, to them, they have forever to catch up on training. However, loyalty is a powerful emotion and most first-years would run through a brick wall if their seniors asked them to. Playing the Honor Card early in an athletes career can help keep the training up until their mind catches up and realizes that they really want/need to be doing all this.
I have to believe that its an innate problem and, therefore, don’t have any judgement against any freshmen for their outlook. Very few 18-30 year-olds ever think about saving for retirement. Why? Because it is a lifetime away. Something to be thought about when they actually grow up…definitely not now. Yet every finance book will tell you that someone who saves $10 a month starting at 18 will always be wealthier than his counterpart that saves $100 a month starting at 30. If you put the work in early, then you won’t have to play catch up later.
I learned this lesson the hard way. Yes, I too succumbed to the same perils of the freshmen year - the invulnerability of being 18. Personally, I didn’t see the inside of the weight room until my junior year of college and as a 110Her that could be a bit detrimental. I thought I was good enough without it, I was an immature, arrogant 18-year-old. Fast forward two years and from my junior year on, I did everything in my power to ensure that I was the best athlete I could be. I improved at a rate that I couldn’t fathom and eventually I only had one person left to beat, Chris Cobbs. Yes, I still remember his name. I only raced him twice in my life - Indoor Nationals ‘01 and Outdoor Nationals ‘01. We never spoke, but I have the utmost respect for the man.
To this day, I feel that I had the abilities to be beside him at both championships; however, he was always a couple clicks in front of me. And it was a direct result of my 1st two years in college. I put myself in a hole that could not be overcome. I just needed one more year of training to be right with him or ahead of him. Regrettably, I had that year and I let it slip past. I had the opportunity to train for a race against Chris Cobbs three years before I even knew he existed. I failed to maximize my freshmen and sophomore years and I have the runner-up trophy to prove it. It’s a good reminder to me to always maximize the present, to not put off living my life.
If you have a goal…go get it…now…don’t wait.
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